Can we shut off from negative influences? Can we? Why not? If we understand the cause, yes, we can.
Negativity is an emotion that disturbs our peace of mind. Why it influences us?
That can happen “Only if we pay attention towards It”. Why do we pay attention to it? Can we stay away from it? May be or it is happening because we trust negativity so much, we believe thus it is. Why we believe it so much? May be because it has memories of so many experiences, which we believed them always were true. Very much true , we hardly dare to see beyond our memories. How many of us really tried to think without memory, can we think without memory?
Cognitive Sense organs are the feeders. Does there any existence without these feeders? Another question is Do we use all the sense organs with same passion? Why we are so biased towards only some of our sense organs and least cared about others? Have we ever tired to be equally conscious towards each and every cognitive senses?
How we are just sensitive to ears(listening) and eyes(seeing), mouth( talking) or similarly to any other sense organ! How about other organs,legs or hands, etc? Say for ex: why cant we talk less and walk more?Don't you remember mouth fire word bullets and enjoy sensory gratification, rather to replying through actions? We hardly pay attention to our action but we are very happy keep saying things to self and others.
why are we sensitive(listening) to some people, though we don't like them or when we know it very well when they are not our well wishers?
why we keep on dumping files into memory the happenings and incidents and the data that we tend to use it for future squabbles or arguments. Don’t we enjoy the sensory gratification, are we really keen knowing the real problems of our life, but we continue to enjoy the dead memories that is neither useful nor serve our real purpose.
We like it or not sometimes we have to listen. But listening doesn't mean tracking them, following them.
Another interesting thing is the perception or blockage formed relationship, specially when the relationship is very close one and they are very dear to us. We have so many expectations and at the same time we have perceptive image based on our past experiences. The Imagery person who been perceived in the mind over takes the real person, and prevent us to view us from seeing the real person, or what is..
We always stay in what was or what would be., we love dead things more than Now the present , which is there which if seen, corresponded truly, will become live and lively.Right now!!!
But ,we don't go beyond the created imaginary person.There is no discovery about us or the person in relationship, no mutual understanding as we don't see the real person. Why do we get affected by such words, which has no meaning at all? It just acts a knock out of our emotions within us.We express everything out and then it calms down and this is on going in process,hence it shows a pattern of mind that releases the frustration, we are just venting out, that’s it, we hardly try to solve the real issues, then we put allegations on others, keep quiet!! till it touches the level of tolerance.
There is no connection with reality.We live in imaginary world mostly. Caught in action and reactions of mere just words, If we observe the the same words of someone whom we are not emotionally(imaginary person)attached don't affect us we just listen, words don’t sink into down.. We leave it then and there only. Once we disconnect ourselves from such imaginary person, we can see the whole relation in a new way. Life is not feelings.Feelings are part of life, which change with the situations
“ Sandeep Maheshwari, a motivational speaker” says If we are given two options to choose what would we prefer !!!
Ask ourselves!
1)We caught in a situation which is ugly,deeply hurting, painful, disgusting, but we knew the way is Absolutely correct to us and it is fruitful.
2) We are in a situation when we feel most comfortable, enthuastic easy, non painful, soothing, But simultaneously we know it very well that it will lead to painful results.
Which way we prefer/choose? The feel or the fact!!!
Most of us choose "better feel" not the better result isnt it?Inspite of the fact that feelings are temporary, they are influenced by environmental factors, they are not going to stay with us always,undulating, swrilling,yo-yoing swings; the life which we live, is different to that of emotions and feelings. We need to understand what is good and what is not, without getting carried away with emotions/feelings.
When we know the reality of understanding, we don't have to pay attention to the persons who are not well wishers and give importance to the voices and words that doesn't have any meaning at all. We don't have to allow them to influence us, that way we can shut ourselves off from negative influences.
Words play a very major role as they are the external medium that connects two persons. The words which we use with kids, should be used very carefully and thought about as they will make a deep impression in their minds, the writer herself is a victim of the words of childhood, paying the debts of memorial which has been accumulated in the mind , the whole wonderful Gallery is there!!
Through words we invite ourselves other people's individual egos to attack and bring ill luck to ourselves. And further it begins a battle and exchange of word fire and a cold war.
Should we invite or reject peoples individual ego with our words?, which act like seeds , its not for others it can act like seeds to our own minds too. So if we can change the words , if we plant good meaningful positive words, non attracting or attracting depending upon our own need we can control our own luck, allows us to sprout our own garden.
Basically its an art of communication which we need to learn from childhood, it comes when we understand our identity is beyond the mind. Beyond the senses, its in the HEART. When we indentify ourselves within the heart the music flows, we don’t require words. It connects, its there heart talks to heart, heart listen to heart in its own language.
Change begins within ourselves! Thus ended the discussion that began with the question "How to shut off from negative influences"
Sincere Thanks for the inputs and insights which has paved a way to a deeper understanding of life aspects.
All these invaluable insights had been shared and having understood, I am in the process of learning:
* to see beyond the imaginary person,
*to learn the art of communication,
*to shut off from negative influences,
*to use words carefully with kids and
*TO CHOOSE WHAT IS GOOD for my life.
Negativity is an emotion that disturbs our peace of mind. Why it influences us?
That can happen “Only if we pay attention towards It”. Why do we pay attention to it? Can we stay away from it? May be or it is happening because we trust negativity so much, we believe thus it is. Why we believe it so much? May be because it has memories of so many experiences, which we believed them always were true. Very much true , we hardly dare to see beyond our memories. How many of us really tried to think without memory, can we think without memory?
Cognitive Sense organs are the feeders. Does there any existence without these feeders? Another question is Do we use all the sense organs with same passion? Why we are so biased towards only some of our sense organs and least cared about others? Have we ever tired to be equally conscious towards each and every cognitive senses?
How we are just sensitive to ears(listening) and eyes(seeing), mouth( talking) or similarly to any other sense organ! How about other organs,legs or hands, etc? Say for ex: why cant we talk less and walk more?Don't you remember mouth fire word bullets and enjoy sensory gratification, rather to replying through actions? We hardly pay attention to our action but we are very happy keep saying things to self and others.
why are we sensitive(listening) to some people, though we don't like them or when we know it very well when they are not our well wishers?
why we keep on dumping files into memory the happenings and incidents and the data that we tend to use it for future squabbles or arguments. Don’t we enjoy the sensory gratification, are we really keen knowing the real problems of our life, but we continue to enjoy the dead memories that is neither useful nor serve our real purpose.
We like it or not sometimes we have to listen. But listening doesn't mean tracking them, following them.
Another interesting thing is the perception or blockage formed relationship, specially when the relationship is very close one and they are very dear to us. We have so many expectations and at the same time we have perceptive image based on our past experiences. The Imagery person who been perceived in the mind over takes the real person, and prevent us to view us from seeing the real person, or what is..
We always stay in what was or what would be., we love dead things more than Now the present , which is there which if seen, corresponded truly, will become live and lively.Right now!!!
But ,we don't go beyond the created imaginary person.There is no discovery about us or the person in relationship, no mutual understanding as we don't see the real person. Why do we get affected by such words, which has no meaning at all? It just acts a knock out of our emotions within us.We express everything out and then it calms down and this is on going in process,hence it shows a pattern of mind that releases the frustration, we are just venting out, that’s it, we hardly try to solve the real issues, then we put allegations on others, keep quiet!! till it touches the level of tolerance.
There is no connection with reality.We live in imaginary world mostly. Caught in action and reactions of mere just words, If we observe the the same words of someone whom we are not emotionally(imaginary person)attached don't affect us we just listen, words don’t sink into down.. We leave it then and there only. Once we disconnect ourselves from such imaginary person, we can see the whole relation in a new way. Life is not feelings.Feelings are part of life, which change with the situations
“ Sandeep Maheshwari, a motivational speaker” says If we are given two options to choose what would we prefer !!!
Ask ourselves!
1)We caught in a situation which is ugly,deeply hurting, painful, disgusting, but we knew the way is Absolutely correct to us and it is fruitful.
2) We are in a situation when we feel most comfortable, enthuastic easy, non painful, soothing, But simultaneously we know it very well that it will lead to painful results.
Which way we prefer/choose? The feel or the fact!!!
Most of us choose "better feel" not the better result isnt it?Inspite of the fact that feelings are temporary, they are influenced by environmental factors, they are not going to stay with us always,undulating, swrilling,yo-yoing swings; the life which we live, is different to that of emotions and feelings. We need to understand what is good and what is not, without getting carried away with emotions/feelings.
When we know the reality of understanding, we don't have to pay attention to the persons who are not well wishers and give importance to the voices and words that doesn't have any meaning at all. We don't have to allow them to influence us, that way we can shut ourselves off from negative influences.
Through words we invite ourselves other people's individual egos to attack and bring ill luck to ourselves. And further it begins a battle and exchange of word fire and a cold war.
Should we invite or reject peoples individual ego with our words?, which act like seeds , its not for others it can act like seeds to our own minds too. So if we can change the words , if we plant good meaningful positive words, non attracting or attracting depending upon our own need we can control our own luck, allows us to sprout our own garden.
Basically its an art of communication which we need to learn from childhood, it comes when we understand our identity is beyond the mind. Beyond the senses, its in the HEART. When we indentify ourselves within the heart the music flows, we don’t require words. It connects, its there heart talks to heart, heart listen to heart in its own language.
Change begins within ourselves! Thus ended the discussion that began with the question "How to shut off from negative influences"
Sincere Thanks for the inputs and insights which has paved a way to a deeper understanding of life aspects.
All these invaluable insights had been shared and having understood, I am in the process of learning:
* to see beyond the imaginary person,
*to learn the art of communication,
*to shut off from negative influences,
*to use words carefully with kids and
*TO CHOOSE WHAT IS GOOD for my life.
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